{"id":13,"date":"2019-03-04T00:18:00","date_gmt":"2019-03-04T00:18:00","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2019-05-15T05:54:55","modified_gmt":"2019-05-15T05:54:55","slug":"orang-pandai-mengendalikan-diri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.paitobolagila.net\/?p=13","title":{"rendered":"Orang Pandai Mengendalikan Diri Ternyata sering Berbohong!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Raleway, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mainbogil.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"419\" data-original-width=\"617\" height=\"271\" src=\"http:\/\/178.128.221.236\/paitototo\/bolagila\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/bohonh-300x204.png\" width=\"400\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Raleway, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Raleway, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mainbogil.com\/m\" style=\"font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-size: medium;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Bolagila<\/a><span style=\"font-family: &quot;times new roman&quot;; font-size: small;\">&nbsp;&#8211;&nbsp;<\/span>Mengetahui diri sendiri sedang dibohongi memang menyakitkan. Rasa percaya mungkin akan hilang setelah dibohongi, namun akui saja, setiap orang pasti pernah berbohong kan? Setiap orang berkata&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.mainbogil.com\/m\" style=\"background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #bf0561; text-decoration-line: none;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">bohong&nbsp;<\/a>setiap hari, bahkan orang yang tampak baik dan bisa membawa diri dan mengendalikan diri di berbagai situasi.<\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Raleway, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px;\">Sebuah penelitian yang diterbitkan dalam jurnal&nbsp;<em style=\"box-sizing: border-box;\">Personality and Individual Differences&nbsp;<\/em>menemukan bahwa&nbsp;<span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; font-weight: 700;\">orang yang pandai mengendalikan diri ternyata memiliki kecenderungan untuk berkata bohong. Terutama, kemampuan mengendalikan diri sangat dibutuhkan jika ingin mengatakan&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.mainbogil.com\/\" style=\"background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #bf0561; text-decoration-line: none;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">kebohongan&nbsp;<\/a>dengan tenang dalam situasi yang kacau.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Raleway, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px;\">Mengapa begitu? Ternyata peneliti menemukan bahwa kemampuan kendali diri atau menahan diri juga berkaitan tentang menjaga citra diri yang baik di masyarat. Sedangkan tentu saja tidak ada orang yang sempurna luar dalam, sehingga kebohongan dibutuhkan untuk menciptakan citra diri yang baik.<\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Raleway, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px;\"><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; font-weight: 700;\"><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Raleway, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px;\">Orang-orang dengan jabatan tinggi atau memiliki posisi yang diperhitungkan umumnya membutuhkan skill pengendalian diri yang baik untuk bisa mengatakan&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.bolagila.co\/m\" style=\"background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #bf0561; text-decoration-line: none;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">kebohongan&nbsp;<\/a>yang halus. Sebaliknya, orang yang penuh emosi dan kurang bisa menahan diri, ternyata lebih jujur dalam mengekspresikan diri.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bolagila&nbsp;&#8211;&nbsp;Mengetahui diri sendiri sedang dibohongi memang menyakitkan. Rasa percaya mungkin akan hilang setelah dibohongi, namun akui saja, setiap&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":77,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[25,26,27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-bohong","category-emosi","category-personalituy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.paitobolagila.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.paitobolagila.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.paitobolagila.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.paitobolagila.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.paitobolagila.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=13"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.paitobolagila.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.paitobolagila.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/77"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.paitobolagila.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=13"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.paitobolagila.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=13"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.paitobolagila.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=13"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}